uni advice- men and women are trash

Need to know about uni mandem

I know on the TL we've all seen countless tweets of girls describing how uni boys did them dirty and how men are trash and you should avoid them all at uni. But this isn't the full picture. While there are a lot of trash guys at uni there are a few good ones too and the number of good ones definetly increases with the year they're in, in uni. Some boys don't even act trash in first year but they are still not willing to settle down until at least second year because that's the 'rule'.

Well I know of a few people who got into relationships in first year that i think can actually last a long time and theres others that are in relationship which are not so healthy and who i think may break up sometime soon. So ladies there is a chance that you might find a rare gem that wants to be your boyfriend in first year but I don't even think you should be looking for one. First year is your time to be selfish, to learn more about yourself and just have fun. This doesn't mean that you have to hook up with anybody but even just talking to new guys and  getting to know what kind of traits you would want in a future partner is important.

To me, first year should be the research year, the best position to take is to just sit back and observe, you'll quickly find out who the obvious trash ones are, and the lowkey ones can be found out as well with patience. Make a lot of guy friends, get to know people and as hard as it can be try not to catch feelings because missing out on premium 'you' time in uni because your heartbroken over a guy is a waste of time. I've heard a few of my guy friends say that in second year they are going to be looking for a girl, so if you go through first year without any guy wanting to be serious dont get disheartened, it's just the uni lifestyle.

Even though I suggest you get a lot of guy friends, this can come with it's own issues, just because you think you are friends with a guy that doesn't mean he thnks he friends with you. Please remember even if he hasn't shown much interest in you romantically, most guys if given the opportunity will try to bed you even if you think it's bait that it's just a platonic friendship. There are some guys that will become your besties in uni but there's also some that one day might try to lips you, so always keep your wits about you.


Need to know about uni gyaldem

It'd be unfair to say that men are the only trash ones at uni cus really, men and women are trash together in first year. You'll definetly see a lot of group having members switch their partners and some groups were everyone in it is cuffed up. There are probably just as many trash girls in uni as there are boys, girls are just a lot better at hiding their trashness.


Some girls you will think are so innocent because you haven't heard of her doing anything with anyone but really she could just be doing bits within a certain group then switch groups so this repuation doesn't follow her.


On the other hand, mandem beware there are some crazy girls in uni, that will do anything for you to cuff them, I've seen girls slashing tires, throwing clothes out, stealing money etc from guys so be careful who you're hooking up with.